On Thursday, we went for a routine non-stress test at GHS.  Due to a sudden and unexpected spike in blood pressure and protein levels, the doctors said it was textbook preclampsia and urged induction of labor asap.

Since we did not want to gamble with preclampsia, we drove straight to Patewood Memorial Hospital.  My wife, Sam, was clearly distraught as she had expressed multiple times that she did not want induction and she felt she was betraying herself by agreeing to it.  I assured her it was not betrayal; we had a plan for ideal circumstances, and our childbirth class armed us with knowledge in the event that circumstances changed.  That really seemed to help her.

Due to their concern with preclampsia and her BP increasing, the doctors recommended breaking her water (AROM).  We reluctantly agreed after Sam spent a day in early labor with no major progress, but I was able to convince the doctor to hold off long enough for Sam to get overnight rest.  Much to everyone’s amazement, Sam proceeded through active labor quickly and then transition was only 30 minutes. It was… intense. The Miles circuit and deep squats made a huge difference, and I sure got an upper body workout with the hip squeeze and other pressure areas. 

While there were some minor complications, both Sam and our baby are safe and happy.  I am beyond impressed with how Sam handled everything, and seamlessly went into motherhood.  

Going into the classes, I was unsure what a “positive birth experience” was, as we’re essentially taught by media and anecdotes that birthing is only excruciating and torturous, but I get it now.  Sam and I agreed that this was a positive and bonding experience.  Our doula, Lindsey Neal, was amazing to work with and we are now both huge advocates for doulas.